2 reasons why you are not manifesting what you want.
And what to do about it!
By Cecile Thomas
You know everything about manifestation and you’ve tried every technique available out there to manifest your dream. You’ve been visualizing, affirming, thinking positive, but time is flying and you’re still waiting for your dreams to manifest at your doorstep. Worse, you’re even getting the opposite of what you’ve asked for!
What are you doing wrong? Why is this happening to you?
I used to be so jealous of the people who get everything so easily. Every time you speak to them, they have an incredible story to tell about how lucky they are and they just don’t know how they do it! It’s as if some of us were programmed for making their dreams a reality in the most effortless way. For most of us, it’s a different story… We have to put in some effort to manifest our desires…
I know, you didn’t want to find that truth bomb in here, just because you are well aware that the magical quick fix doesn’t exist when you dance with the Universe, but you’re still looking for it!
You have to know something, the Universe is working FOR you, 24/7 and 365 days a year. It is your invisible ally in the manifestation of your dream life, and when you ask, it delivers, 100% of the time.
The question is: are you asking for the right thing?
“When you want something, all the Universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”
– Paulo Coelho
1- Every subject is two subjects
In other words, there is your desire, and there is the absence of it. Most often, we know what we want. It’s clear, it’s loud, it’s burning inside! So we scream to the Universe to deliver that one thing we crave, only to hear crickets. Why is that?
Think about it for a minute. Have you ever caught yourself feeling impatient, or dwelling on your current situation? Have you ever spent a good amount of time visualizing your desire daily but feeling less and less optimistic as time goes by and nothing is changing?
Isn’t it funny how we most often know what we want but we keep focusing on its absence, the lack, the frustration, the impatience?
That’s right, the more you focus on all these negative feelings, the more you send a mixed signal to the Universe, the more you will attract things that will match that vibration.
While you wait for the momentum to be built and the inspiration to strike so you can finally be led to your desire, there is one crucial thing you need to do:
WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS! (and shift them!)
There are a few things that are not in your control in this world, it’s not always up to you to determine how your soulmate will walk into your life, how the money will get in the bank, how you’ll find the best weight loss recipe.
But there is one thing you can control, one thing that you have power over: what’s going on in your mind.
Your thoughts will control you if you don’t control them. And as you want to manifest your desire, it’s your job to direct your focus on what you want instead of what you don’t!
Here is what you can do:
- Observe your thoughts about your desire, write them down if you have to. Where is your focus? Are you living in the wish fulfilled or are you getting frustrated while you wait? What are the feelings?
- When you identify a thought getting in the way of what you want, shift it! Remember, you have the power, so bring your focus back on what you want instead of its absence.
- Raise your vibration: dance, sing, go for a walk, do something that feels good. It’s proven that when you engage in something that makes your heart smile, it will ease the process of thinking positive thoughts.
- Practice, practice, practice. The more you do this process, the more it will become natural.
Now, you may already be a master in thinking the thoughts you know will act as a magnet for opportunities, and still not get what you want. Here is why.
By Cecile Thomas
2- You lack clarity
You want money? How much? Ask for more money and you may find a coin in the street. Wish fulfilled! After all, you asked for money, didn’t you?
When you work on your goals and what you want to achieve, you need to be CRYSTAL CLEAR!
How much do you want in your bank account? What qualities does your soulmate have (please intend for them to be single, you’ll avoid a lot of trauma!)?
You see, your intuition will naturally guide you towards your desire, opportunities will be all around, resources will be made available, but it will happen only when you have the necessary clarity. When you do, you will not only be able to dismiss the opportunities that will take you away from your desire, but you will be in a position to recognize when it’s time to take action.
When you know where you are going, there is no trying to make everything happen at once, there is no doubt, there is no question. You have your eyes on the prize, your mind on the goal.
If you think you are not sure about what you want for your life or aware that you’re lacking clarity, do this:
- Make a list of your top #3 desires as of today
- For each desire, list all the things that you are expecting for your manifestation. If it’s money, how much? Monthly, yearly, daily? What will you do with that money? If it’s a job, what responsibilities do you want? What kind of manager? How many hours a week? Get into as many details as you can.
- Find the feeling place. How does it feel to finally get what you want? Try to find that feeling in the present moment.
- Nurture your desire every day. Add details, visualize, get into the feeling of the wish fulfilled as much as you can.
You now know how to get on the path to your wish. When you have clarity and know how to direct your thoughts and focus, you are building the momentum to bring your dreams to life, and you have only one thing left to do : take inspired action!
Trust yourself, trust your intuition, trust your vision, take chances and the Universe will take care of the rest.
PS: you don’t have to do this alone. If you need a push, if it feels too hard, I am here to help. Click HERE to see how we can bring your special dreams to life together.